Subject: Negative Energy?
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From: Leslie Ohanian From: stephen a hermann <steveradhe@juno.com> Date: Saturday, January 13, 2001 10:16 AM Subject: Re: Negative Energy? Leslie, Thank you for your question. It's a question I have been asked many times in the work I do. It sounds like your co- worker needs a lot of love and help. It is really great that you are willing to attempt to assist her even though you end up picking up on her negative feelings. Keep in mind that you are not responsible for making her happy. She has free will and can chose to stay focused on negativity as long as she wants. Once people get stuck in negative patterns it is difficult to change and ultimately unless we won't be unless we are open to it and are willing to do our part in the process. I suggest that you first work on strengthening and raising your own energy that way you will be less likely to pick up her negative energy. The best way to raise your own vibration is through regular prayer and meditation. The more the better. Chanting Affirmations also helps to purify our minds and raise our consciousness. The bottom line is when we are in touch with the Divine Power within others around us will be touched and ultimately transformed. I am sure that you have already touched her a lot in this way without even being aware of it. Keep in mind that most healings are gradual and take place as the individual in need makes adjustments in his or her lifestyle and patterns of thought She most likely could benefit from a support group. !2 step ones work really well for a lot of people.. It's important in this situation that you establish healthy boundaries and don't let her over step them. If you raise your own energy up you will less likely to be drained. This is not always easy but most professional care givers such as nurses, psychotherapists, massage therapists, etc. have to learn how to feel love and compassion for those they are working with, FEEL the problems of others, without taking such problems on or being brought down by such low vibes. As a medium for this reason I do as much as possible to take care of myself. Physically, mentally and emotionally this needs to be done and most importantly spiritually with your own prayer and spiritual practice. Keep in mind that we are just channels for the healing to work through. I have no doubt that your friend will be spiritually touched through your kindness and the love of your presence. Don't worry about the results If you pray for help you will get it. A few other suggestions. Typically negative energy will be felt in the solar plexus area. Some people find that mentally imaging a shield of light of protection in this area or completely around the body helps to block out the negative energy. Also, Pray for her send her love and healing for her highest good. Know that healing always works and reaches a person for his or her highest good and growth. When you are within her auric field or when she starts up about how bad she feels. in your mind pray for her. Send her LOVE and know that she is being touched by a higher power. You may not instantly see the results but she will be reached. I hope that this gives you some ideas Leslie. Let me know how things work out. I will send some energy to the situation as well.. You also have Guides who will help you. Take care and God Bless, Steve Please forward all questions to steveradhe@juno.com [Back to Spiritual and Psychic Readings Homepage] |